If you follow me on Instagram, you already heard our exciting news: we’re expecting baby #2 in October! And now you probably understand why there’s been radio silence on the blog the last few months. I am so so excited for this baby, but this pregnancy, like the last, has been wearing me out. By the afternoon, all I can do is lay on the couch and pray that Harper will play in one spot for a little while. But now that the secret is out, I wanted to summon the energy to sit down and write my first “bumpdate.” This one will cover everything from the time I found out until today. Going forward, I’ll probably do bi-weekly or monthly bumpdates.
How far along are you? 13 weeks, two days.
How big is baby? The size of a lemon which blows my mind. Time seems to be flying this pregnancy and, when I remember to check, I’m always blown away by how big the baby is.
Total weight gain? I’m actually down 3ish pounds from my starting weight. With Harper, I only gained 10 pounds and I lost it all within 2 or 3 weeks after she was born. But before you start hating me, I was overweight to start out with. I had goals to lose weight before I got pregnant again, but those plans failed and I started this pregnancy exactly where I was the last time. Thanks to my morning sickness, which I’ll discuss more below, I’ve lost a few pounds since the torture started.
How are you feeling? This pregnancy is very different from my first in many ways, but one thing that’s exactly the same is the vomiting. Every morning since just before 10 weeks, I wake up at 6:45am and throw up. Every. Single. Morning. Last time, I had constant nausea from 6 weeks until about 16. This time, the nausea comes and goes, usually after I eat. I have lots of heartburn and indigestion this time again, but I take Tums and Papaya Enzymes religiously so it never gets too bad. Overall, I feel better this time than I did with Harper so I try to focus on that.
How’s your sleep? I’m already sleeping with a pillow between my legs which is crazy to me because my baby is still so tiny. In the last week, the middle of the night bathroom visits started as well. So sleep isn’t fantastic right now. I also spend half the night afraid to wake up because I know that I’ll have to throw up when I do. Ugh.
Best moment this week? Announcing our pregnancy to the world. I’ve been telling close friends and family as I see them, but it’s always so fun to tell everyone. Now I can talk about it freely and stop worrying about whether people are wondering if I’m gaining tons of weight in my midsection for no reason.
What are you looking forward to? Our anatomy ultrasound next month. I cannot wait to find out if this little nugget is a boy or a girl. I find that I can bond with the baby so much more when I can call them by name (we already have names picked out). I’m also super excited to start figuring out what we’re going to do with the nursery and picking out clothes and all of that.
Any milestones this week? Last week, I met with my Maternal Fetal Medicine Specialist for the first time. Because Harper was premature, and I have a high chance of having another preemie, I’ll be seeing a group of midwives and OBs as well as a Maternal Fetal Medicine Specialist. The MFM specialist will set up my progesterone shots (every week starting at 16 weeks) and check my cervix every two weeks to make sure that it isn’t shortening prematurely. All of that on top of my regular prenatal appointments. Just thinking about it all made me really stressed out, especially since I won’t be seeing any of the OBs or midwives I saw during my last pregnancy, but I am so happy with the team I’ve selected. I’ve been praying everyday that this baby will come in God’s perfect timing and I feel fully confident in that which is a huge milestone for me.
I think that’s it for my first bumpdate! I’m sure I’m forgetting something (pregnancy brain is real!) so if you have any questions or specific topics you want me to address in upcoming pregnancy posts, please let me know. Thank you to everyone who has already sent us congratulatory messages. You are all so sweet!